“Nothing In Life Is To Be Feared, It Is Only To Be Understood.” Marie Curie

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I couldn’t have said it better, when anxiety sufferers begin to understand at a deep level what it is they are going through, the process of losing the fear begins. The 6 steps I’ve come up with to overcoming generalized anxiety disorder that lead to panic must be applied and perfected.

1 – Complete Acceptance) Accept that what you have is related to anxiety and nothing more.

2 – Becoming Knowledgable) Educate yourself about generalized anxiety and panic attacks and how and why they happen.

3 – Building On The Facts) Build confidence and self-­esteem from looking at your current and past fears, recognizing that none of them have come true and won’t ever come true.

4 – Taking Action) Make an action plan and implement it so that your new daily rituals/routines add fuel to what your overall goal is.

5 – Accepting Setbacks) Realize that two steps forward and one step back is still putting you on the right track.

6 – Patience) There is no set time that recovery will be achieved, so be ready to work with time.

By looking at recovery as a long term plan, we become less disappointed in temporary setbacks. As we gradually approach our fears and overcome them, we build on facts that help us realize the truth to all our worries ­and that is that what we fear most will not come true.

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The Anxious Brain Unmasked

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You may have noticed that your thinking patterns have changed since you started having panic attacks. Generally, thoughts like, “I’m dying! I’m going insane!” I’m having a heart attack! I have to get away before I lose it!” It’s very normal to have thoughts like these bout the physical sensations you may be experiencing with panic attacks. Your brain is reacting in a primitive way to a perceived danger. If there is a danger, your brain does not give you time what to do. 

Rather, it reacts on an instinctual level, trying to get you safe as quickly as possible. The problem is when we bring our more modern, analytical selves into the mix. We try to figure out why we are reacting to stress in such a way. ‘Why did such a basic problem turn into such a frightening event?‘ How can I keep this from happening ever again? You don’t realize that your body was physically reacting in a primitive way to a perceived danger, and you ruminate on the fearful event that caused the symptoms. You keep playing it over and over and over again in your mind, so that any emotions you were feeling that triggered the panic episode are relived again and again. You have started to develop what is commonly called ‘The Anxious Brain’

The Anxious Brain

Throughout your life and all of your experiences, you have unknowingly built up an understanding about the world around you and you have learned how you react to certain situations. Imagine you suddenly react to something differently. You feel a tingling in your hands or your heart starts to pound. These are not the normal reactions you have to whatever situation you are in, so your mind starts to analyze and tries to figure out what the possible reasons could be for those physical sensations. As your brain is trying to figure out what the reasons are for these sensations, it is not likely going to immediately understand that you are experiencing symptoms of anxiety. It is more likely to start worrying about the more serious medical conditions that come with tingling hands and a pounding heart. This causes more anxiety, which seems to make the physical symptoms worse. Eventually, you train your brain to search for any and all sensations that might signal a physical problem, which triggers anxiety and anxious symptoms, and so on. The more this happens, the more likely you will have a similar experience every time you have any type of anxiety or panic episode. Even after you feel better, you will start to worry about what just happened and what situations caused it. You will start to avoid any situations that may (or may not) cause you to panic. You have successfully trained your brain into immediately thinking the worst in any situation – thereby increasing your worries and fears a great deal. 

The Fix

So what exactly can you do to fix an anxious brain? The first thing you have to do is recognize and be aware of the chain of thoughts that cause your anxiety to peak. The anxious brain will misinterpret feelings in our body as a life or death scenario, making you feel worse and worse as time goes on. For example, you are out at the movies, and you notice that you had a heart palpitation. Then you start to breathe quicker to try to calm your heart, which only makes your heart beat faster. The quick breathing dries your throat and makes it harder to swallow – each of your physical sensations coupled with your anxious brain turn these into a panic episode before you even realize what is happening. As you get more frightened your behavior might change – you might end up leaving the movie to go to a ‘safe” place – the bathroom, for example. The more you react to your physical sensations, the more your brain starts to think something really might be wrong. This is your anxious brain hard at work. What you need to do is be clear with yourself and tell your anxious brain that you simply had a heart palpitation – stop the cascade of anxious thoughts before they even start. You also need to be aware of that – unfortunately – you have an anxious brain. You are likely to experience things out of context to what they really are. Anxious thoughts are going to enter your mind. As long as you are aware of them right away, you can deal with them as they come. Kind of like bringing an annoying relative with you everywhere you go. Your anxious brain is part of your life, but it is not the way you will be forever. If you begin to retrain your brain into thinking rationally about your physical reality instead of blowing it out of proportion, you will eventually stop noticing every twinge, muscle spasm, or minor heart palpitation or you will accept them for what they are – normal.

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FIght or Flight Fridays | The 3 Essential Keys To Overcoming A Panic Attack

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We’re now well aware that fear is the main culprit of panic attacks. It creates confusion and leads us to think physical sensations mean impending doom. Fear of being involved in certain external activities also raises our adrenaline and creates panic attacks, so people condition themselves to avoid them at all costs. The circle of panic can occur on and off for days, weeks, months and, in my case, even years. People who suffer from panic attacks have consciously and subconsciously trained themselves to react this way and general levels of anxiety are constantly high,but is it possible to recondition yourself to react a DIFFERENT way during an oncoming panic attack? Of course, let’s look at the essential steps necessary when panic strikes:

Step 1) Allow – I cannot tell you how important this step is. Once you notice a sensation due to an event that is taking place, it’s important to ALLOW your dizziness to be there. Allow your heart to pound as hard as it would like, and allow any type of sensation to just be without adding more adrenaline that takes place due to the reaction of FEAR. Allowing is done through building on the facts about panic attacks (that no one has ever died from a panic attack before) and the fact that in your own past you have been through this before, and just like in the past, all panic attacks subside eventually.

Step 2) Apply ‘Focused Distraction’ – Immediately find something that is physical and that challenges you. Remember something like darts or golf, although considered somewhat physical, don’t help you the way a brisk walk or a bike ride does in this situation. After that, set either a timed, distance, height, or speed type of challenge depending on the physical activity. At this point, you have allowed and surrendered to what you fear most. Hold that white flag up and don’t add to it! I can tell you from experience that ‘focused distraction’ is very difficult to apply the first few times, because this goes a completely opposite direction than what you are currently conditioned to do which is battle back, become stationary, and look for help! Take a medium to fast paced walk and do not stop until feelings subside, which they will (they always do don’t they?). I loved taking walks (not as much during panic attacks of course) and during feelings of panic it was my greatest relief, and of course it challenges you because you are going a different route than before!

Step 3) Let the Storm Pass – The last necessary part to the three steps to be taken during panic attacks is letting the time go by without keeping track of it. Just as a storm that passes and eventually subsides, so will your anxiety, so let it pass through you. Storms build up slowly, become big grey clouds, and eventually hit a peak and stop before the sun comes out again. Have this image in your head as you get to step three, and make these steps a routine whenever you feel things are getting out of control, apply them each time.

When these three steps are applied over and over, your mental ‘car alarm’ doesn’t go off because of a strong wind, for example. There starts to be less sensitivity in the tripwire of your ‘car’, and the panic feeling starts to go further and further down. When it comes to panic attacks, there is only one key factor that separates the sufferers who completely eliminate panic attacks, and those who continue to experience them. The key ingredient is not medication, nor is it really lifestyle changes; it is the exact point when a person no longer fears the thought of having a panic attack. Make sure that you CLEARLY understand this, and run these three steps religiously until it is automatic.

Fridays are dedicated to filling my followers with valuable information on Panic Attacks and our built in Fight Or Flight Responses. By applying this knowledge consistently you will be well on your way to overcoming your panic attacks naturally and quickly.

 

 



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Top 10 List Of Things That Caused Me Panic Attacks!

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Some of the things on this list I could avoid, but others I just had to step up and face in my day to day life – what choice did I really have? It was either dig deep and find a solution other than running away or avoiding these events, people or places, or live the rest of my life like a mouse looking for his tiny hole to run into at every opportunity. Most of the time that hole was sitting on a bed next to a common acquaintance – my doctor – at the emergency room. Let’s get to the list:

  1. My boss at my old job – Boy was my mind ever quick to let my body know it was time to either run or fight when he came around. All that suffering and I only had ONE raise in 7 years…yeesh what a waste of worrying!
  1. My morning drive to work – My common thoughts were, “I swear if someone looks at me through the windshield one more time I’m gonna lose it!”
  1. Flying on an airplane – One day while watching TV before my 6 years of GAD struck, I remember watching a documentary about how the entire top of a plane came off and sent everyone on board flying through the clouds, so before boarding a plane I always made sure everything was bolted tight and even than I didn’t trust those things. Thank god for those mini gin bottles, at least they kept those horrid sensations at bay for a while…
  1. My old neighbors – Have you ever pretended you were looking away or occupied with something else while trying to avoid someone? I prayed I didn’t get another invite to dinner that would lead to 6 hyperventilating visits to my neighbors bathroom, but I would always get caught and couldn’t say no to a nice couple in their 80’s.
  1. The shopping mall – When my fiancée would say we’re going to the mall, I would literally want to ask if I could bring my paper bag with me just in case my ‘living in a bubble’ feeling came about, and I started to gasp for air. I still don’t know what she saw in me, must have been the tennis skills.
  1. The tennis court – I made a living playing and teaching tennis, but as soon as I stepped on a tennis court, each and every time there was a feeling of what might be. If I was in a match I could barely keep half the water in my cup because my hands would be shaking too much. If I saw a group of 6 year olds I had to teach, I literally had to step back into my car and give myself a pep talk while those poor kids waited so patiently day after day.
  1. A nightclub – Pick up chicks my friends said? More like pick up my phone and get the emergency on speed dial, no dancing here…
  1. Church – Have you ever gotten to the point of rock bottom? That Generalized Anxiety Disorder and panic attacks got to be so much, that one day you decided to seek for yourself the only FREE option left? Hello God? It didn’t last long though, the services were much too long and the exit doors were always way too far away.
  1. Video games – Oh my beloved Xbox, how badly I wanted to play a game here and there but the sheer intensity I would put into trying to level up, or score a goal on Fifa would just be the door to my terror filled evening just minutes after turning the console off. This might have been the only time my fiancée didn’t mind me having a raging panic attack.
  1. Alcohol – The #1 thing that would be the cause of my panic attacks time and time again either during the night or the next day or weeks after…alcohol was the big winner, and sometimes all it took was a sip or two to send me into a spiral of fearful thoughts and eventually the overwhelming physical sensations that went with it.

Now I don’t recommend this, but when I was on a roll trying to step out of my comfort zone which was my home and towards the things I feared, I actually would drink a few beers some nights just so I could work on trying to overcome my fears and the feelings that came with it. Did it work, you ask? Actually it did! A little inspiration and a whole lot of being fed up of your condition, combined with a solid action plan can make all your dreams and goals come true, take it from me.

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